Dear Sponsored Child

 Dear Sponsored Child,

 Recent changes to the requirements of World Vision employees have been made. I strongly disagree with the allowances they have made, so I have decided to withdraw my contribution that provides much needed help for you and your community. I know you struggle daily to get clean water, food, and other necessities. But, you see, here in America we have so much extra time and money that we can pick and choose to whom we want to give it. Only certain organizations are worthy of my contribution, and now World Vision is not one of them. They previously did not allow those who struggled with sexual sin to work for them, but now they do. Can you imagine?! Soon they will let any sinner work for them. I just can't risk that, so I'm having to let you go. I really do hope that by taking your help away, World Vision will change their regulations and you will be able to have clean water and medicine once again. 

                    

Sincerely & with much love,

 Your Sponsor

  
 We sponsor a few children through World Vision and there is nothing that can really compare to it. I have to admit that we don't write to our kids nearly as much as we should, but we do still get letters. I love seeing that orange and white envelope come with a stamp from a foreign country. Our oldest girl, who we specifically chose because she was older, writes the most. She lives in Kenya and the stamps are just beautiful. They send pictures of things they have bought with our monetary Christmas gift. Last year someone bought a bed. Other things they have purchased are school supplies, clothes, and even a keyboard! Let me just say that we do not give a whole lot compared to American standards, but the money goes a very long way.

 With all of that being said, I can not imagine pulling out of these relationships for any reason. But I have read from a few different sources that professed Christians have ended 2000-5000 sponsorships. I really don't know if I'm more sad or more angry. The reason: World Vision made a decision to recognize same-sex marriages in their policy that prohibits sex outside of marriage. I won't even approach that topic. 

 Shortly after the announcement, I shared simply what my choice was on the subject. I like to tap into current issues and admittedly I love to ruffle feathers. Christian feathers. As a Christian who already sponsored several children through World Vision, I wanted to share my view. Here it is:

 I want to be transparent. I was not intending the status to convey that we would sponsor more children. If we had felt called to do that, we certainly would have. I just meant that I would be holding on tight to the ones we already had.

 Here's where I get to the part that makes Christians uncomfortable. Shame on us. In a decision so big that it affects the entire world, we really made Christ look hateful. I'm not saying I agree or disagree with the decision they made. It is not my place to judge the decisions of others, whether it be other individuals or organizations. It is my place to love, and to love with reckless abandon. 

 I am by no means saying to give to things that are overtly against the teachings of God. If you do not feel comfortable sponsoring children or more children with this ministry because of their choice, then don't. But to threaten to drop or to act on your judgment and drop children is, frankly, disgusting. By doing this, we are using manipulation to control the organization we so freely supported. Not to mention, we are causing starving and sick children to suffer at our hands.

 "But God said...and He wouldn't want..." Okay. Let's go there. Do you believe that when God called you to sponsor your child or children that He knew what choices were ahead? If that is true, then we should trust God to do what He alone has the authority to do: convict and correct. By using our wallet to get what we believe is "right," we are acting as the Holy Spirit of leaders at World Vision. We are acting as God. A hateful, manipulating, self-righteous god. 

 Many of us know that the greatest commandment is to love the Lord with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. The second is love your neighbor. You may not know that when speaking to Jesus, a man stated "to love your neighbor as yourself is more important than all burnt offerings and sacrifices." (Mark 12:33 NIV) To this, Jesus told the man that he was wise. So if you aren't giving out of love, then don't give.

          If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don’t love, I’m nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate.

If I speak God’s Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing.

 If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love. (1 Corinthians 13, MSG)

Lead Me To The Cross

 I don't believe anyone has ever been convinced to join the kingdom of God. Maybe some have been scared into it by the thought of an eternal hell. There is really no way for me to know, but I can share with you what I do know.

 

 When I was 13 years old, I first got a glimpse of who Jesus is. I was saddened over my choices as a young teenager and took a week of my summer to attend a Christian camp with a friend. It was the first time I remember asking for forgiveness. I knew I needed it. I came home from that camp with a changed heart and a changed mind. My sister was frustrated by my disapproval of certain television shows. She felt the need to inform me that my passion for Jesus would soon fade. Sadly, she was right.

 

 I lived a life of constant struggle. In my heart I knew what I believed and I knew I was making terrible choices. But I couldn't stop. I now realize that I couldn't stop because I was trying to do it on my own. Again, I was disappointed with myself. I did ask for forgiveness and I started over. Again, and again, and again. Paul is no stranger to this internal struggle that he describes in Romans 7:15.

 

 Thankfully, my life did change. But it didn't change without devastating heart break. Just a couple of years ago, I stopped being saddened and disappointed by my sin. I reached a point of grieving over it. I began to be sickened by the mistakes that I had made, and I finally admitted that there is nothing I can do to overcome it. The turning point for me was seeing the truth that by trying to do it alone, I am living a life that claims Jesus wasn't enough. Only Jesus can overcome, and He already has.

 

 Jesus was very clear in his communication with others that they aren't expected to clean up before approaching him. It is only after they come into contact with Jesus that they clearly understand how filthy they are. The same can be said of me, you, and every other person with which we come into contact.

 

 When we are trying to share the hope and love of Jesus Christ, our message should not be "you are sinning. Come to Jesus." It should be the complete opposite. We should reach out with the love of Christ and invite others to come to Jesus as they are. Come saddened, broken, unloved, hateful, prideful, judgmental, entitled... just come. It is not until we are in the light that we realize how dark it was.

 

 On the cross Jesus shouted "Tetelestai!" Literally it is translated "it is finished." It also was a term that was stamped on legal documents to denote that the debt had been paid. The term was put on a prisoner's file after he had served his time. It's incredibly amazing to see how Jesus used this word to encompass all He did for us. But it is meaningless to somebody who doesn't know they have a debt that needs to be paid. Someone who believes they have no prison time to serve, can't appreciate that someone else has served the time for them.

 

 It is absolutely not our place to inform others of what debt they need to pay. We are not the debt collectors. We can only show them the love of the one who is and pray that they will meet Him.